I am looking for some literature with some (counter) examples of the following fact (though I don't know if the fact is true or not):
Let $M, M'$ be two non-compact connected $3$-manifolds with the same proper homotopy type. Then $M$ is homeomorphic to $M'$.
Recall that two spaces $X$ and $Y$ are said to have the same proper homotopy type if there are proper maps $f\colon X\to Y$ and $g\colon Y\to X$ such that both $f\circ g$ and $g\circ f$ are properly homotopic to the identity maps. A proper homotopy from $X$ to $Y$ is a homotopy, that is, a map $H\colon X\times [0,1]\to Y$, which is a proper map.