Let $M$ be a smooth (embedded or immersed) surface in $\mathbb{R}^3$.
Let $Z_1,Z_2$ be two vector fields along $M$, thought of as $\mathbb{R}^3$-valued functions, satisfying the following differential equation:
$$\langle XZ_i,Y \rangle + \langle X,YZ_i \rangle =0$$
for all vector fields $X,Y$ on $M$. Here $XZ$ means a derivative with respect to the vector field $X$ of a $\mathbb{R}^3$-valued function $Z$. We will call such $Z_1,Z_2$ infinitesimal bendings, since the derivative of a one-parameter family of isometric immersions must satisfy this equation.
Is it true, that the pointwise cross product $M \ni m\mapsto Z_1(m)\times Z_2(m)$ is also an infinitesimal bending?
I don't have any particular reason to believe that it might be true, i couldn't prove it by algebraic manipulations, and not trained to produce non-flat surfaces admitting independent infinitesimal deformations to find a counterexample.