Consider a finite group $G$ and two conjugacy classes $H$ and $I$ of isomorphic subgroups of $G$.
Question. Is there some finite overgroup of $G$ which fuses $H$ and $I$ into a single conjugacy class?
Consider a finite group $G$ and two conjugacy classes $H$ and $I$ of isomorphic subgroups of $G$.
Question. Is there some finite overgroup of $G$ which fuses $H$ and $I$ into a single conjugacy class?
The answer is yes, as noted in the comments above by Will Sawin.
Let $H$ and $I$ be isomorphic subgroups of the finite group $G$.
Consider the regular permutation representation $G \leq \operatorname{Sym}(\Omega)$, where $\Omega = G$. Then for $H$ and $I$ the action on $\Omega$ splits into $[G:H] = [G:I]$ orbits. Furthermore, for both groups the action on every orbit is regular. So since $H$ and $I$ are isomorphic, their actions on $\Omega$ are equivalent, which means that they are conjugate in $\operatorname{Sym}(\Omega)$.
In general, for any group $G$, with HNN extension you can find an infinite overgroup $G^*$ of $G$ such that $H$ and $I$ are conjugate in $G^*$.