So far I only found the following messy proof. In case I did a mistake or you know a more elegant way it would be a pleasure to know. It seems to me that can be generalised to any "BGG square". Therefore I'm wondering that I couldn't find anything in the standard literature.
Claim: $\ker(\phi) \cong M((-2,0,2))$. Consider at first the embeddings
\begin{align}
M((-2,0,2)) \stackrel{e}\rightarrow M((-2,1,1))\,,\,&v_{(-2,0,2)} \mapsto y_{\alpha_3}v_{(-2,1,1)}\\
M((-2,0,2)) \stackrel{f}\rightarrow M((-1,-1,2))\,,\,&v_{(-2,0,2)} \mapsto y_{\alpha_1}v_{(-1,-1,2)},\\
\end{align}
which are choosen in a way such that $ge+hf=0$. Notice that
\begin{equation*}
(e,f):M((-2,0,2)) \rightarrow M((-2,1,1)) \oplus M((-1,-1,2))
\end{equation*}
is injective by definition of $e$ and $f$ and the latter equation implies immediately that $(e,f)(M((-2,0,2)) \subset \ker(\phi)$.
Let $(v,w) \in \ker(\phi) \subset M((−2,1,1)) \oplus M((−1,−1,2)$. As all objects are weight spaces we can assume that $v \in M((−2,1,1))_\mu$ and $w \in M((−1,−1,2)_{\mu}$ for occurring weight $\mu$.
Observe
\begin{align*}
(-2,0,2)-\lambda_1\alpha_1-\lambda_2\alpha_2-\lambda_1\alpha_2&=(0,-1,1)-(2+\lambda_1+\lambda_2)\alpha_1-(1+\lambda_2+\lambda_3)\alpha_3, \\
(-1,-1,2)-\lambda_1\alpha_1-\lambda_2\alpha_2-\lambda_1\alpha_2&=(0,-1,1)-(1+\lambda_1+\lambda_2)\alpha_1-(1+\lambda_2+\lambda_3)\alpha_3, \\
(-2,1,1)-\lambda_1\alpha_1-\lambda_2\alpha_2-\lambda_1\alpha_2&=(0,-1,1)-(2+\lambda_1+\lambda_2)\alpha_1-(\lambda_2+\lambda_3)\alpha_3, \\
(0,-1,1)-\lambda_1\alpha_1-\lambda_2\alpha_2-\lambda_1\alpha_2&=(0,-1,1)-(\lambda_1+\lambda_2)\alpha_1-(\lambda_2+\lambda_3)\alpha_3. \\
\end{align*}
Every possible occurring weight is of the form $\mu =(0,-1,1)-n\alpha_1-m\alpha_3$ with $n,m\geq0$ and we see that
\begin{align*}
\dim M((-2,0,2))_\mu&=\max\{0,\min\{n-1,m\}\}, \\
\dim M((-1,-1,2))_\mu&=\min\{n,m\}, \\
\dim M((-2,1,1))_\mu&=\max\{0,\min\{n-1,m+1\}\}, \\
\dim M((0,-1,1))_\mu&=\min\{n+1,m+1\}.
\end{align*}
Thus for $(v,w) \in \ker(\phi)$ with $v \in M((−2,1,1))_\mu$ and $w \in M((−1,−1,2)_{\mu}$ we have:
Case 1: $n-1 \geq m+1$. Then
\begin{align*}
\dim M((-2,0,2))_\mu&=m, \\
\dim M((-1,-1,2))_\mu&=m, \\
\dim M((-2,1,1))_\mu&=m+1, \\
\dim M((0,-1,1))_\mu&=m+1
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align}
g(v)=-h(w) &\in g(M((-2,1,1))_\mu)\cap h(M((-1,-1,2))_\mu) \\
&=M((0,-1,1))_\mu \cap h(M((-1,-1,2))_\mu) \\
&=h(M((-1,-1,2))_\mu)=hf(M((-2,0,2))_\mu).
\end{align}
Hence we find $z\in M((-2,0,2))_\mu$ such that $ge(z)=-hf(z)=-h(w)=g(v)$. By injectivity of $g$ and $h$, we see that $(v,w)=(e(z),f(z)) \in (e,f)(M((-2,0,2))$.
Case 2: $n-1 \leq m$
Case 2.1: $n-1=m$. Then
\begin{align*}
\dim M((-2,0,2))_\mu&=n-1, \\
\dim M((-1,-1,2))_\mu&=n-1, \\
\dim M((-2,1,1))_\mu&=n-1, \\
\dim M((0,-1,1))_\mu&=n.
\end{align*}
and
\begin{align}
g(v)=-h(w) &\in g(M((-2,1,1))_\mu)\cap h(M((-1,-1,2))_\mu) \\
&=ge(M((-2,0,2))_\mu) \cap hf(M((-2,0,2))_\mu)\\
&=hf(M((-2,0,2))_\mu)\\
\end{align}
and we can proceed as in case 1.
Case 2.2: $n-1<m$. Then
\begin{align*}
\dim M((-2,0,2))_\mu&=n-1, \\
\dim M((-1,-1,2))_\mu&=n, \\
\dim M((-2,1,1))_\mu&=n-1, \\
\dim M((0,-1,1))_\mu&=n.
\end{align*}
Thus it is analog to case 1.
Hence we see that $\ker(\phi)=(e,f)(M((-2,0,2))\cong M((-2,0,2))$.