Consider a self-adjoint matrix $M$ that has block form
$$M = \begin{pmatrix} M_{11} & M_{12} \\ M_{12}^* & M_{11} \end{pmatrix}.$$
I am wondering if there exists any criterion to decide if this matrix can be transformed by some invertible matrix $T$
such that $$TMT^{-1} = \begin{pmatrix}0 & C \\ C^* & 0 \end{pmatrix}$$ for some suitable matrix $C?$
Notice that one restriction that $\begin{pmatrix}0 & C \\ C^* & 0 \end{pmatrix}$ already puts is that the spectrum of $M$ has to be symmetric with respect to zero as conjugation by $$\begin{pmatrix}1 & 0 \\ 0 & -1 \end{pmatrix}$$ shows.
As a first step, one might ask when we can achieve a form
$$TMT^{-1} = \begin{pmatrix}0 & C \\ D & 0 \end{pmatrix}$$
where $C$ and $D$ are arbitrary matrices?