(edit: Added Theorem 2 below, which gives half the case with abelian direct factors, and classifies the finite abelian $\mathcal{D}$-groups)
Theorem 1. Let $G$ be a non-trivial group satisfying both chain conditions on normal subgroups, and with no non-trivial abelian direct factors. Then $G$ is a $\mathcal{D}$-group if and only if $G$ admits a unique Krull-Schmidt decomposition, up to the order of the factors.
proof: The chain conditions guarantee that $G$ admits a (finite length) Krull-Schmidt decomposition $G= G_1\times \cdots \times G_n$, where the subgroups $G_1,...,G_n$ are all non-trivial and indecomposable. Let $\pi_1,...,\pi_n$ denote the corresponding projections $\pi_i\colon G\to G_i$.
The group $\text{Aut}_c(G) = C_{\text{Aut}(G)}(\text{Inn}(G))$ acts transitively on the Krull-Schmidt decompositions, up to the order of the factors. $G$ admits a unique KS decomposition, up to order of the factors, if and only if $\text{Aut}_c(G) = \prod_{i=1}^n \text{Aut}_c(G_i)$. This is in turn equivalent to $\text{Hom}(G_i,Z(G_j))$ being trivial for all $i\neq j$. Which is in turn equivalent to $\pi_j(\phi(G_i))$ being trivial for all $i\neq j$ and $\phi\in\text{Aut}_c(G)$.
So suppose that $G$ admits a unique KS decomposition, up to the order of the factors. Then every direct factor of $G$ is of the form $\prod_{i\in E} G_i$ for some $E\subseteq \{1,...,n\}$. The intersection and join of direct factors are therefore equivalent to the intersection and union of the corresponding subsets of $\{1,...,n\}$. Therefore the direct factors form a sublattice of $\mathcal{N}(G)$, and $G$ is a $\mathcal{D}$-group.
On the other hand, suppose that $G$ does not admit a unique KS decomposition up to the order of the factors. Fix any KS decomposition $G= G_1\times\cdots G_n$. Also fix $i,j$ such that $\text{Hom}(G_i,Z(G_j))$ is non-trivial, and let $z\in\text{Hom}(G_i,Z(G_j))$ be non-trivial. We define $\phi\in\text{Aut}_c(G)$ by $\phi(g)=g$ for $g\in G_k\neq G_i$ and $\phi(g)= g z(g)$ for all $g\in G_i$. Then $G_i$ and $\phi(G_i)$ are distinct direct factors of $G$ but $G_i\cap \phi(G_i) =\ker(z)$ is a proper normal subgroup of the indecomposable group $G_i$, so can be a direct factor only if $\ker(z)=1$. This implies $G_i$ is abelian, a contradiction to assumptions on $G$. $\square$
The reverse direction did not use the assumption of no abelian direct factors.
Theorem 2. Let $G$ be a non-trivial group satisfying both chain conditions on normal subgroups. Write $G= (A_1\times\cdots\times A_k)\times (G_1\times \cdots \times G_n)$, and $A=A_1\times\cdots \times A_k$, where the $A_i$ are indecomposable abelian groups and the $G_i$ are indecomposable non-abelian groups. If $G$ is a $\mathcal{D}$-group then the following three conditions hold:
(1) The Sylow subgroups of $A$ are either cyclic or elementary abelian. Equivalently, for all $i\neq j$, any non-trivial element of $\text{Hom}(A_i,A_j)$ is an injection.
(2) The Krull-Schmidt decomposition of $G_1\times\cdots\times G_n$ is unique, up to the order of the factors. Equivalently, for all $i\neq j$, $\text{Hom}(G_i,Z(G_j))$ is trivial.
(3) For all $i,j$, any non-trivial element of $\text{Hom}(A_i,Z(G_j))$ is an injection. Given the previous two conditions, this is equivalent to saying that if the Sylow $p$-subgroup of $A$ is not elementary abelian, then the Sylow $p$-subgroup of $Z(G_j)$ is trivial for all $j$.
proof: The proof proceeds essentially as in proof of the forward direction for the previous proof.
We write $G=H_1\times\cdots \times H_m$, where we permit one or more factors to be abelian. For any $i\neq j$ we consider $z\in\text{Hom}(H_i,Z(H_j))$, and define $\phi\in\text{Aut}_c(G)$ by $\phi(g)=g$ for all $g\in H_k\neq H_i$ and $\phi(g)=g z(g)$ for all $g\in H_i$. We consider $H_i\cap \phi(H_i)=\ker(z)$, which is the intersection of two direct factors of $G$.
If $G$ is a $\mathcal{D}$-group, then $\ker(z)$ is a normal subgroup of the indecomposable group $H_i$ which is also a direct factor of $G$. Therefore either $\ker(z)=H_i$ or $\ker(z)=1$. In particular, for all $i\neq j$ any non-trivial element of $\text{Hom}(H_i,Z(H_j))$ must be an injection. If such an injection exists, then $H_i$ must be abelian. As every quotient of a finite abelian group $X$ is isomorphic to a subgroup of $X$, and vice versa, the three conditions then follow. $\square$.
I'm fairly confident the converse also holds, thereby giving the full classification of $\mathcal{D}$-groups with both chain conditions, and so in particular all finite $\mathcal{D}$-groups. But I'm still working on that.