Perhaps it's worth collecting the comments into a community wiki answer.
When Cohen was trying to prove the independence of the continuum hypothesis from ZFC, at some point he realized that what one needed to do was to take a countable transitive model $M$ of ZFC and "adjoin" a suitable subset of $\mathbb N$ to it, much as one can "adjoin" a complex number $x$ to $\mathbb Q$ to create a larger field $\mathbb{Q}(x)$. The trouble, however, is that the ZFC axioms are a lot more complicated than the axioms for a field, and so you cannot just adjoin an arbitrary subset of $\mathbb{N}$ to $M$ and expect to always produce another model of ZFC. Counterexamples are not hard to construct. However, when Cohen was studying these counterexamples, he realized that they were all rather "delicate," using "special features" of $M$ to cause trouble. He therefore conceived the idea that perhaps the difficulties could be avoided by adjoining a "generic" subset of $\mathbb N$.
Initially, when Cohen was still groping around for the right concepts, he had no precise definition of "generic" in mind. Eventually, he developed the machinery of forcing, which is too complicated to describe in detail here. But central to the construction is a poset $P\in M$ and a filter $G$ that is $P$-generic over $M$. This definition of "generic" is precise, and can be phrased in terms of "intersecting every dense subset." Although Cohen did not originally think in topological terms, it was soon recognized that there was a very close relationship between generic sets and comeager sets. So when Cohen says that generic subsets of natural numbers have no (natural) density, he means that the set of all subsets of natural numbers with no density is comeager, and not that it has measure one. Nate Eldredge's answer gives a proof of Cohen's claim.
One may still wonder whether Cohen's initial intuition about "having no special properties" can be made precise in some other way. I have had long discussions with Scott Aaronson, who very much wants the argument to go something like this: "Attempting to adjoin certain special subsets of $\mathbb N$ to $M$ causes trouble, so let's instead adjoin a random subset of $\mathbb N$, and argue that almost surely we will avoid all the bad subsets of $\mathbb N$." For someone with Scott's background, probability theory (or measure theory) is natural, but Baire category isβ¦weird.
Initially, I thought that Scott's idea could work. But I soon realized that measure and category don't align well when it comes to forcing. We see that in your example here; as you point out, the strong law of large numbers implies that if you flip a fair coin countably many times, then almost surely the proportion of heads will converge to 1/2. However, the set of such outcomes is meager. (By the way, the natural way to understand the random coin flips is to take the product of countably many copies of a two-element set, so I suspect that what's really bothering you is not the distinction between the topology of the Cantor set and the topology of $\mathbb R$, but rather the distinction between measure and category.)
As it turns out, the forcing machinery is so flexible and powerful that it can be used to adjoin a random subset of $\mathbb N$ to $M$; this technique is known as random forcing. But trying to prove the independence of the continuum hypothesis this way involves more technicalities than Cohen's original proof, and to prove that it all works, it seems that one needs to introduce all the standard forcing machinery anyway, so it's not clear that anything is gained. There is no known way to dispense with the usual definition of "generic" and rebuild all the tools used for independence proofs in purely probabilistic terms. Despite 60 years of effort, no alternative technique with comparable power and versatility to forcing has been found; the machinery of forcing seems to be forced upon us, for reasons that remain somewhat mysterious even a posteriori, let alone a priori.