Suppose that $F$ is a subfield of a field $E$ and, for
$n\times n$ matrices $A_1,\dots,A_m, B_1,\dots,B_m$
over $F$, there exists a matrix $T\in{\rm GL}_n(E)$
such that $T^{-1}A_iT=B_i$ for all $i$.
Does this imply that such a matrix $T$ can be chosen from ${\rm GL}_n(F)$?
It is easy to see that the answer is
- yes if $m=1$;
- and yes if the field $F$ is infinite.