Can you construct it by restriction of scalars? Namely, as Nick Gill says, it is enough to consider the case $r=n$ (i.e., Lagrangian subspaces). Secondly, let us fix a non-zero functional $\phi:\mathbb F_{q^n}\to\mathbb F_q$ and a symplectic space $(V,\omega)$ of dimension $2$ over $\mathbb F_{q^n}$. Then $(V,\phi\circ\omega)$ is a symplectic space of dimension $2n$ over $\mathbb F_q$. Any $\mathbb F_{q^n}$-line in $V$ is going to be Lagrangian (over $\mathbb F_{q^n}$, and therefore also over $\mathbb F_q$), and such lines form a spread.
P.S. I assume here that you are looking at $V$ over the finite field $\mathbb F_q$: this is mentioned in the title, but not in the body of the question.