EDIT: As René Pannekoek points out in a comment, I misread the question. This question was asking for birational automorphisms of $\mathbb{P}^2$, not just automorphisms.
I'll leave this answer (which doesn't answer the question) since it might be useful.
A negative result for elliptic curves: Not in general. For example, suppose that $C$ and $D$ are the same elliptic curve inside $\mathbb{P}^2$. Set $P \in C$ to be an inflection point, ie a point such that $L \cap C = 3P$ for some line $L \in \mathbb{P}^2$. Fix $Q$ to be another point which is not of that form (ie, such that the tangent line intersects $Q$ at another point of $C = D$). In particular, let's say that $Q$ is an element of infinite order.
Suppose that $f : C \to D$ to be a map which sends $P$ to $Q$ (note that such maps always exist since $C$ is an elliptic curve and thus an Abelian variety). No automorphism of $\mathbb{P}^2$ (ie, an element of $PGL(2)$) will restrict to $f$, since such an $F$ will send the line $L$ going through $P$ to a line going through $Q$ (and only $Q$).
EDIT: As François Brunault points out, this sort of construction can't work to avoid birational automorphisms.
A positive result for elliptic curves: On the other hand, if your elliptic curve is $C = V(y^2 - x(x-1)(x-\lambda) )$, with inflection point at infinity $P$, then Exercise 4.3 in Chapter IV of Hartshorne says that every isomorphism of $C$ that leaves $P$ fixed comes from a linear automorphism of $\mathbb{P}^2$.
A positive result for genus 3 curves: The result is true for genus 3 curves, see Hartshorne, Chapter IV, Exercise 5.7(a).
A positive result vacuously: Of course, ``most'' curves of higher genus have no automorphisms at all (ie, most elements of the moduli space have no automorphisms except the identity). See for example Baily, On the automorphism group of a generic curve of genus >2.