We can use the lazy random walk interpretation to show the desired result.
First, observe that it suffices to analyze a non-lazy random walk with $\pm 1$ steps. This is because taking $n$ steps in a lazy walk is like taking $\operatorname{Binomial}(n, v)$ steps in a non-lazy walk, where $v$ is the probability the lazy walk moves in a given step.
To that end, let
- $\{Y_t\}_{t \in \mathbb{N}}$ be a random walk with i.i.d. $\{-1, +1\}$ increments, where $+1$ has probability $u \in (0, 1)$,
- $\{T_n\}_{n \in \mathbb{N}}$ be a random walk with i.i.d. $\{0, +1\}$ increments, where $+1$ has probability $v \in (0, 1)$,
- $X_n = Y_{T_n}$, and
- $f(t) = \mathbf{P}[Y_t = 0]$.
Also suppose $\{Y_t\}_{t \in \mathbb{N}}$ and $\{T_n\}_{n \in \mathbb{N}}$ are independent. This means $X_n$ is a random walk with i.i.d. $\{-1, 0, +1\}$ increments, stepping $-1$ with probability $(1 - u) v$ and stepping $+1$ with probability $u v$.
Relationship to the original question. $X_n$ is the lazy random walk from the question, representing the difference between the two independent binomials. $Y_t$ is the lazy walk's value after $t$ nonzero steps, and $T_n$ is the number of nonzero steps the lazy walk has taken. To specify the process in terms of $p$ and $q$ from the original question, set $u = \frac{(1 - p) q}{p (1 - q) + (1 - p) q}$ and $v = p (1 - q) + (1 - p) q$.
We wish to show $\mathbf{P}[X_n = 0]$ is strictly decreasing in $n$. The key observation is that $T_n$ is strictly stochastically increasing in $n$ (see (2) below), and we can express $\mathbf{P}[X_n = 0]$ as a function of $T_n$:
$$\begin{aligned}
\mathbf{P}[X_n = 0]
&= \mathbf{P}[Y_{T_n} = 0] \\
&= \mathbf{E}\bigl[\mathbf{P}[Y_{T_n} = 0 \mid T_n]\bigr] \\
&= \mathbf{E}[f(T_n)],
\end{aligned}$$
where the last step follows from independence of $\{Y_t\}_{t \in \mathbb{N}}$ and $\{T_n\}_{n \in \mathbb{N}}$.
We first show that $f(t) = \mathbf{P}[Y_t = 0]$ is strictly decreasing in $t$. This follows form a short computation:
$$\begin{aligned}
\frac{f(t + 1)}{f(t)}
&= \frac{\mathbf{P}[Y_{t + 1} = 0]}{\mathbf{P}[Y_t = 0]} \\
&= \frac{\frac{(2 (t + 1))!}{((t + 1)!)^2} (u (1 - u))^{t + 1}}{\frac{(2 t)!}{(t!)^2} (u (1 - u))^t} \\
&= u (1 - u) \cdot \frac{(2t + 2) (2t + 1)}{(t + 1)^2} \\
&= 4 u (1 - u) \cdot \frac{(t + 1) \bigl(t + \frac{1}{2}\bigr)}{(t + 1)^2} \\
&< 4 u (1 - u) \leq 1. && (1)
\end{aligned}$$
Having shown $f(t)$ is strictly decreasing in $t$, we now show $\mathbf{E}[f(T_n)]$ is strictly decreasing in $n$. It is clear that for all $t \in \{0, \dots, n\}$,
$$
\mathbf{P}[T_{n + 1} > t]
> \mathbf{P}[T_n > t]. \qquad (2)
$$
This is because $T_{n + 1}$ gets one more $\{0, +1\}$-valued step than $T_n$.
By summation by parts, for $\mathbb{N}$-valued random variables $T$,
$$
\mathbf{E}[f(T)]
= f(0) + \sum_{t = 0}^\infty (f(t + 1) - f(t)) \mathbf{P}[T > t]. \qquad (3)
$$
By (1), the differences $f(t + 1) - f(t)$ are all positive. Combining this with (2) and (3) implies $\mathbf{E}[f(T_{n + 1})] > \mathbf{E}[f(T_n)]$, as desired.
Remark 1. We have actually shown that if $u \neq \frac{1}{2}$ (i.e. if $p \neq q$), then $\mathbf{P}[Y_t = 0]$ decreases exponentially in $t$. I strongly suspect that $\mathbf{P}[X_n = 0]$ decreases exponentially in $n$, too, though you might need to use a concentration inequality on $T_n$ to show this.
Remark 2. Equation (3) holds for any function $f$ and $\mathbb{N}$-valued random variable under any one of the following sufficient (but not necessary) conditions:
- $T$ has bounded support (so one can use linearity of expectation).
- $f$ is absolutely bounded (so one can use Fubini's theorem).
- $f$ is nonnegative (so one can use Tonelli's theorem).
In this application, all three conditions hold, which is why I did not dwell on them.
On strict vs. weak stochastic ordering. An earlier version of this proof claimed the following:
By a standard property of stochastic ordering, if $f(t)$ is strictly decreasing in $t$, then $\mathbf{E}[f(T_n)]$ is strictly decreasing in $n$, as desired.
The "standard" property I was thinking of is for weak (i.e. standard) stochastic ordering, not strict. I believe a strict version should hold, and it's easy enough to show for integer-valued random variables. But the details for the general version seem complicated enough that above, I replaced the appeal to the property with a direct argument. I've asked about the strict version here.