I came across the following simple question that seems to be open:
Let $U$ be a set of $n$ elements. Let $P_1$ be a partition of $U$ into $k\le n$ "blocks" (i.e. disjoint subsets) and let $P_2 \ne P_1$ be another distinct partition of $U$ into $k$ blocks.
Question: How large can we choose $k$ such that there exist $x,y \in U$ with the property that $x$ and $y$ are contained in a block in $P_1$ and also contained in a block of $P_2$?
Remarks:
An equivalent way to think about this is how large we need to choose $n$ as a function of $k$ to ensure that there exist such blocks with common elements.
Clearly, for any constant $k$, we can make $n$ large enough to ensure the existence of such $x,y$ that lie in the same block in both partitions. I am much more interested in the case where $k$ is a function that grows with $n$. For instance, is it still true if $k \ge \sqrt{n}$?
This seems to be related to the social golfer problem, defined as follows: "32 golfers play golf once a week in groups of 4. Schedule these golfers to play for as many weeks as possible without any two golfers playing together in a group more than once." However, I could not find asymptotic bounds for this problem but rather only specific instances that people have solved.