$\newcommand\de\delta\newcommand{\KL}{\operatorname{KL}}\newcommand{\p}{\,\|\,}$The maps
$$\mu\mapsto\sqrt{\KL(\mu\p\nu)}$$
and
$$\nu\mapsto\sqrt{\KL(\mu\p\nu)}$$
are not convex in general.
Indeed, let $\mu_p:=p\de_0+(1-p)\de_1$, where $p\in(0,1)$ and $\de_a$ is the Dirac measure supported on $\{a\}$.
Then the second partial derivative with respect to $p$ of $\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu_p\p\mu_r)}$ at $(p,r)=(1/10,1/11)$ is $-7.17\ldots<0$. So, $\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu\p\mu_r)}$ is not convex in $\mu$.
Also, the second partial derivative with respect to $r$ of $\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu_p\p\mu_r)}$ at $(p,r)=(1/10,1/9)$ is $-11.50\ldots<0$. So, $\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu_p\p\nu)}$ is not convex in $\nu$.
You also asked: "If this is not true in general, does it exists a measure $\mu\in P(X)$ such that $\nu\mapsto \sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu\p\nu)}$ is a convex map $P(X)\to \mathbb [0,+\infty]$? Or a measure $\nu$ such that $\mu\mapsto \sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu\p\nu)}$ is convex?"
The answer to each of these two questions is yes, at least when $X=\{0,1\}$, say.
For $p\in(0,1)$, let
\begin{equation}
F(p):=\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu_p\p\mu_{1/2})},
\end{equation}
\begin{equation}
f(p):=F''(p)4 \mathrm{KL}(\mu_p\p\mu_{1/2})^{3/2},
\end{equation}
\begin{equation}
f_1(p):=f'(p)(1-p)^2 p^2.
\end{equation}
Then $f_1(1/2)=f'_1(1/2)=f''_1(1/2)=0$ and
\begin{equation}
f'''_1(p)=\frac{2+4 p(1-p)}{(1-p)^2 p^2}>0.
\end{equation}
It follows that $F''(p)\ge0$, so that $\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu\p\mu_{1/2})}$ is convex in $\mu$.
For $r\in(0,1)$, let
\begin{equation}
G(r):=\sqrt{\mathrm{KL}(\mu_{1/2}\p\mu_r)},
\end{equation}
and
\begin{equation}
g(r):=G''(r)4\mathrm{KL}(\mu_{1/2}\p\mu_r)^{3/2}.
\end{equation}
Then $g(1/2)=g'(1/2)=g''(1/2)=g'''(1/2)=0$ and
\begin{equation}
g''''(1/2+h)\frac{(1 - 4 h^2)^4}{16}=9- 16 h^4 + 156 h^2 + 64 h^6 \\
>9- 1 + 156 h^2 + 64 h^6>0
\end{equation}
if $|h|<1/2$.
It follows that $G''(r)\ge0$, so that $\sqrt{\KL(\mu_{1/2}\p\nu)}$ is convex in $\nu$.
Remark 1: The existence of a probability measure $\nu\in P(X)$ such that $\sqrt{\KL(\mu\p\nu)}$ is convex in $\nu$ holds for any Polish space $X$. Indeed, the case when $X$ is a singleton set is trivial. Otherwise, take any distinct points $x$ and $y$ in $X$ and let $\nu:=\frac12\,\de_x+\frac12\,\de_y$. Then the condition $\mu\ll\nu$ implies $\mu=p\,\de_x+(1-p)\,\de_y$ for some $p\in[0,1]$, so that here $\sqrt{\KL(\mu\p\nu)}=F(p)$.
Remark 2: Let us say that a probability measure $\mu\in P(X)$ is good if $\sqrt{\KL(\mu\p\nu)}$ is convex in $\nu$. Then it is easy to see that the Dirac measure $\de_x$ is good for any $x\in X$. It also follows from above that $\mu:=\frac12\,\de_x+\frac12\,\de_y$ is good if $X=\{x,y\}$ for some $x,y$.
Finally, using reasoning similar to that above, one can show that, in the case when the cardinality of $X$ is $\ge3$, the only good probability measures $\mu\in P(X)$ are the Dirac measures. Since this answer has already grown rather long, I will leave the latter assertion as an exercise to interested readers.
Now the answer is quite complete.
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, looks different from $\mu\parallel\nu,$ coded as\mu\parallel\nu
. I changed the former to the latter. Daily I see things typed by mathematicians using LaTeX that have convinced me that few among them even suspect that some sober-minded people think that things like this matter, and that there are good and substantial reasons for that. In particular, people who don't notice these differences are affected by them. $\endgroup$\,\|\,
. Thank you and Timothy Chow for the editing and discussion. $\endgroup$