It seems that there are two common meanings for a submanifold of an almost-complex Riemannnian manifold to be "totally real": one says that the almost-complex structure takes the tangent space into the normal space, and the other says that the image of the tangent space under the almost-complex structure has trivial intersection with the tangent space.
The former definition appears in section 16 of Bang-Yen Chen's survey "Riemannian submanifolds" and in chapter 6 of Krishan Duggal and Bayram Sahin's book "Differential geometry of lightlike submanifolds"
The latter definition appears in Jason Lotay and Tommaso Pacini's article "Complexified diffeomorphism groups, totally real submanifolds and Kähler-Einstein geometry" and in section 2.3 of Gromov's "Partial differential relations" and his "Pseudo holomorphic curves in symplectic manifolds."
Is one of these more standard than the other? And under the former definition, is there any specific language to refer to the latter definition, perhaps as a "real submanifold"?