In Kolar, Michor, & Slovak's book Natural Operations in Differential Geometry, it is proved the exterior derivative is universal in the following sense.
Proposition 25.4. For $k>0$ all natural operators $\Lambda ^kT^\ast \rightsquigarrow \Lambda ^{k+1}T^\ast$ are constant multiples of the exterior derivative.
For relevant definition see e.g this question. However, being a natural operator turns out to be an equivariance condition, which does not seem as obviously desirable as commuting with diffeomorphisms. (Maybe this is equivalent somehow? I haven't had a chance to decode what jet-group equivariance really means.)
On the other hand, a result of Palais says the the exterior derivative is the only (apriori assumed) linear map which commutes with diffeomorphisms.
So yeah, I guess I'm just trying to understand the relationship between being a natural operator in the sense of the linked question, to pleasantly commuting with all diffeomorphisms.