Can there be a large cardinal $\kappa$ and a forcing of size $\kappa$ that makes $\kappa$ a singular cardinal? The motivation is that the standard Prikry forcing does not have a dense set of size $\kappa$.
Edit:
In response to some attempts at a positive answer, let me explain something that does not work. If $\mathbb{P}$ is the Prikry forcing and $\mathbb{Q}$ is something like $Coll(\kappa,2^\kappa)$, one may expect under suitable indestructibility hypotheses, $\mathbb{P}$ works in $V^\mathbb{Q}$. But this never works.
The following lemma is based on an exercise in Kunen's book: Suppose $\kappa$ is a singular cardinal and $\mathbb{R} = \{ f : f$ is a partial function from $\kappa$ to $2$ with domain bounded below $\kappa \}$, ordered by extension. Then $\mathbb{R}$ collapses $\kappa$ to $cf(\kappa)$.
Proof: Suppose for simplicity $cf(\kappa) = \omega$, and let $\langle \kappa_n : n \in \omega \rangle$ be an increasing cofinal sequence. If $G \subseteq \mathbb{R}$ is generic, define in $V[G]$ the function $f : \omega \to \kappa$ by $f(n) = \beta$ where $\beta < \kappa_n$ and for some $\delta$, the ordinal $\kappa_n \cdot \delta + \beta$ is the $\kappa_n$-th element of $\{ \alpha : \bigcup G(\alpha) = 1 \}$. A simple density argument shows that $f$ is surjective.
Now let $\kappa$ be our large cardinal. It follows from a general folklore fact that there is a dense embedding $e : Add(\kappa,1) \times Coll(\kappa,2^\kappa) \to Coll(\kappa,2^\kappa)$. After forcing with $\mathbb{P}$, the $Add(\kappa,1)$ of the ground model becomes the forcing with bounded functions from the lemma, and the map $e$ is still a dense embedding. So if $G \times H$ is $\mathbb{P} \times \mathbb{Q}$-generic, then by the lemma, $\kappa$ is collapsed to $\omega$. Therefore in $V^\mathbb{Q}$, $\mathbb{P}$ collapses $\kappa$ to $\omega$.
I suspect that if a positive answer is possible, the forcing must be significantly different from the standard Prikry forcing or some combination of it with simple forcings.