Let me adjust notation slightly -- the $k$ in the original post is more usually a $\lambda$ in the literature. Thus the concept you want is this:
Definition. A symmetric $2-(v,k,\lambda)$ design is a pair $(\Omega, \mathcal{B})$ where $\Omega$ is a set of size $v$ and $\mathcal{B}$ is a set of $k$-subsets of $\Omega$ such that:
- any 2 points of $\Omega$ lie in $\lambda$ elements of $\mathcal{B}$;
- any 2 elements of $\mathcal{B}$ intersect in $\lambda$ elements of $\Omega$.
A simple counting argument asserts that an object has the property that $b=|\mathcal{B}|=v$. If you want to know when these things exist, then the following theorem should be your starting point:
The Bruck-Ryser-Chowla Theorem. If a symmetric $2-(v,k,\lambda)$ design exists, then
- if $v$ is even, then $k-\lambda$ is a square;
- if $v$ is odd, then the following Diophantine equation has a nontrivial solution:
$$x^2-(k-\lambda)y^2 - (-1)^{(v-1)/2}\lambda z^2=0.$$
More is known in special cases. For instance there is a famous result of Lam, using a computer, that asserts that a symmetric $2-(111,11,1)$ design does not exist (there is no projective plane of order $10$).