We call a collection ${\cal S}\subseteq {\cal P}(\newcommand{\N}{\mathbb{N}}\N)$ bijection-proof if for any bijection $\varphi:\N\to\N$ there is $T\in{\cal S}$ with $\varphi(T) \in {\cal S}$.
For any set $X$, let $[X]^2 = \big\{\{x,y\}: x\neq y\in X\big\}$. For any positive integer $n\in\N$, we set $[n]^2 :=[\{1,\ldots,n\}]^2$. Trivially $[\N]^2$ is bijection-proof. Let ${\frak B}$ be the collection of bijection-proof subsets of $[\N]^2$.
For $P\subseteq [\N]^2$, we let $$\newcommand{\mmu}{\mu_{[\N]^2}}\mmu(P) = \lim\inf_{n\to\infty}\frac{\newcommand{\card}{\text{card}}\card\big(P\cap [n+1]^2\big)}{\card\big([n+1]^2\big)},$$where of course $\card([n]^2) = n(n-1)/2$ for any positive integer $n$.
Question. What is $\inf\{\mmu(B): B\in {\frak B}\}$?