Let $N$ and $N'$ be regular/non-explosive point processes on $[0,\infty)$. I will take the view that these are collections of random arrival times: $N=(t_n)_{n\in\mathbb N}$ and $N'=(t_n')_{n\in\mathbb N}$. They are regular/non-explosive in the sense that they always have a finite number of points in any finite interval. Assume both processes have predictable conditional intensity functions (CIFs) $\lambda(t)$ and $\lambda'(t)$. See Section 7.2 in Daley & Vere-Jones (2003), An introduction to the theory of point processes. Vol. I for more details about the conditional intensity function (Def. 7.2.II). Note that there is a question of uniqueness of CIF here, but that is taken care of by taking the left-continuous version, by definition (this is discussed in the text referenced above).
Note that the CIF actually involves implicitly conditioning on the history of the point process up to time $t$ (but not including $t$, technically). The CIF is in general a stochastic process itself, depending on the particulars of the point process, e.g. a Poisson process whose intensity randomly jumps between several values (such as a Markov-modulated Poisson process).
I am interested in stochastic domination where $N\subset_{st} N'$, i.e. that we can construct a coupling so that $N'$ has a point wherever $N$ does (almost surely). See Section 2.9 in Szekli (1995) Stochastic ordering and dependence in applied probability for more details on such stochastic domination.
It is well-known that domination of CIFs implies domination of point processes. In other words, if $\lambda(t)\leq\lambda'(t)$ for all $t\geq0$ (note that this is actually a stochastic domination as well) implies that $N\subset_{st} N'$. See Theorem E in Szekli (1995) linked above or Theorem 2 in Rolski & Szekli (1991), Stochastic ordering and thinning of point processes.
My question is: does $N\subset_{st} N'$ ever imply $\lambda(t)\leq\lambda'(t)$ for all $t\geq0$?
I can't find any comments on this converse statement at all. Now I can imagine that there are all sorts of complicated processes for which this converse is false (the answer to my question is negative). I would love to have some explicit examples given. But I feel like there must be examples where the implication goes both ways. The trivial example is Poisson point processes with constant intensities (yes?). It seems that comparing a Poisson point process to one with a non-homogeneous but nonrandom intensity would also give the implication going both ways. What about comparing a Poisson point process (with constant intensity) to one with a fairly well-behaved random intensity that is a continuous function but just has jumps at arrivals (like a self-excited process)? It seems to me like point process domination requires domination of such well-behaved intensities (at least when consider stochastic orderings with basic Poisson point processes).
So my claim is: Let $N$ be a Poisson point process with constant intensity $\alpha$ and let $N'$ be a point process with predictable CIF $\lambda(t)$. Then $N\subset_{st} N'$ if and only if $\alpha\leq\lambda(t)$ for all $t>0$ and all possible histories of arrivals.
My attempt at a proof sketch is that if $\alpha>\lambda(t)$ for some $t$ (and some history of arrivals), then $\alpha>\lambda(s)$ for $s\in (t-\epsilon,t)$ for some $\epsilon>0$. This is because the CIF is left-continuous and there are finitely many points in $[0,t]$. Hence, we cannot get point process domination since $N$ has a higher probability of having at least one point in $(t-\epsilon,t)$.
Am I missing something?