Consider a family of elliptic curves over the open unit disc $D\subset \mathbb{C}$ which degenerates to the nodal elliptic curve over the point $0$. I'd like to show that such a family is diffeomorphic to the Tate curve, that is, a neighbourhood of the nodal elliptic curve (the point at infinity) in the compactified moduli stack of elliptic curves.
One thing I was thinking about is to start with the trivial family over the sliced disc $D\setminus \{z: \text{Re}(z) \geq 0, \text{Im}(z) =0\}$. Then the Picard-Lefschetz formula specifies the monodromy if we want to fill in the fibre over $0$ with the nodal curve, and in particular it tells us how to glue this to get a nontrivial family over $D^*$.
So the question becomes, why is there only one way (up to diffeomorphism) to glue the nodal elliptic curve into this family? Or can anyone supply another way of approaching this problem?
Edit: I should also ask for this family to form a smooth surface, and specify that the central fibre should have precisely one node and one component.