Of course Tyler Lawson's answer is the more conceptual and insightful one, but in case it is useful, I ran your GAP script on a machine with 64 GB of RAM, which turned out to be enough. If I understand the output of ExtOverAlgebra correctly, it seems that your $HH^2(A)$ group is a 138-dimensional vector space.
The GAP session is pasted below. Please let me know if I have misunderstood anything, including possibly the output of ExtOverAlgebra, which I never used before running your script.
gap> LoadPackage("qpa");
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Loading GBNP 1.0.3 (Non-commutative Gröbner bases)
by A.M. Cohen (http://www.win.tue.nl/~amc) and
J.W. Knopper ([email protected]).
Homepage: http://mathdox.org/products/gbnp/
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Loading QPA 1.30 (Quivers and Path Algebras)
by Edward Green (http://www.math.vt.edu/people/green) and
Oeyvind Solberg (https://folk.ntnu.no/oyvinso/).
Homepage: https://folk.ntnu.no/oyvinso/QPA/
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true
gap> Q := Quiver(1, [[1,1,"x"],[1,1,"y"],[1,1,"h_1"],[1,1,"h_2"]]);
<quiver with 1 vertices and 4 arrows>
gap> R := PathAlgebra(Rationals,Q);
<Rationals[<quiver with 1 vertices and 4 arrows>]>
gap> gens:= GeneratorsOfAlgebra(R);
[ (1)*v1, (1)*x, (1)*y, (1)*h_1, (1)*h_2 ]
gap> x:=gens[2];
(1)*x
gap> y:=gens[3];
(1)*y
gap> h_1:=gens[4];
(1)*h_1
gap> h_2:=gens[5];
(1)*h_2
gap> relations :=[x^2,y^2,h_1^2,h_2^2,x*y,y*x,h_1*h_2,h_2*h_1,x*h_1*x,x*h_1*y,y*h_1*y,x*h_2*x,y*h_2*x,y*h_2*y,y*h_1*x+x*h_2*y,h_1*x*h_1,h_1*x*h_2,h_2*x*h_1,h_2*x*h_2,h_1*y*h_1,h_1*y*h_2,h_2*y*h_1,h_2*y*h_2];
[ (1)*x^2, (1)*y^2, (1)*h_1^2, (1)*h_2^2, (1)*x*y, (1)*y*x, (1)*h_1*h_2,
(1)*h_2*h_1, (1)*x*h_1*x, (1)*x*h_1*y, (1)*y*h_1*y, (1)*x*h_2*x,
(1)*y*h_2*x, (1)*y*h_2*y, (1)*x*h_2*y+(1)*y*h_1*x, (1)*h_1*x*h_1,
(1)*h_1*x*h_2, (1)*h_2*x*h_1, (1)*h_2*x*h_2, (1)*h_1*y*h_1, (1)*h_1*y*h_2,
(1)*h_2*y*h_1, (1)*h_2*y*h_2 ]
gap> gb := GBNPGroebnerBasis(relations,R);
[ (1)*x^2, (1)*x*y, (1)*y*x, (1)*y^2, (1)*h_1^2, (1)*h_1*h_2, (1)*h_2*h_1,
(1)*h_2^2, (1)*x*h_1*x, (1)*x*h_1*y, (1)*x*h_2*x, (1)*x*h_2*y+(1)*y*h_1*x,
(1)*y*h_1*y, (1)*y*h_2*x, (1)*y*h_2*y, (1)*h_1*x*h_1, (1)*h_1*x*h_2,
(1)*h_1*y*h_1, (1)*h_1*y*h_2, (1)*h_2*x*h_1, (1)*h_2*x*h_2, (1)*h_2*y*h_1,
(1)*h_2*y*h_2 ]
gap> I:=Ideal(R,gb);
<two-sided ideal in <Rationals[<quiver with 1 vertices and 4 arrows>]>,
(23 generators)>
gap> GroebnerBasis(I,gb);
<complete two-sided Groebner basis containing 23 elements>
gap> A:=R/I;
<Rationals[<quiver with 1 vertices and 4 arrows>]/
<two-sided ideal in <Rationals[<quiver with 1 vertices and 4 arrows>]>,
(23 generators)>>
gap> M := AlgebraAsModuleOverEnvelopingAlgebra(A);
<[ 14 ]>
gap> HH2 := ExtOverAlgebra(NthSyzygy(M, 1), M);
[ <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 784 ]>>,
[ <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>,
<<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>>, <<[ 602 ]> ---> <[ 14 ]>> ],
function( map ) ... end ]
gap> Length(HH2[2]);
138