Fix a prime number $p$. Can there exist a continuous irreducible representation $\mathrm{Gal}(\overline{\mathbb{Q}}/\mathbb{Q})\to \mathrm{GL}_3(\mathbb{Q}_p)$ that is unramified at almost all primes, is de Rham at $p$ and whose HodgeTate weights at $p$ are 0, 1 and 3?

3$\begingroup$ So I'm not a reputable source, eh? :) $\endgroup$ – David Hansen Feb 1 at 13:10
Here are two arguments for why such a representation $\rho$ cannot exist.
Automorphic argument: Fontaine and Mazur have conjectured that any irreducible $n$dimensional geometric representation $\rho$ of $Gal(\overline{\mathbf{Q}} / \mathbf{Q})$ comes from a cuspidal automorphic representation $\pi$ of $GL_n(\mathbf{A}_{\mathbf{Q}})$, and that "localglobal compatibility at $\infty$" should hold, which amounts to saying that the Archimedean component $\pi_\infty$ should be determined by the Hodge–Tate weights of $\rho$ – up to a certain explicit shift, the multiset of Hodge–Tate weights of $\rho$ is the HarishChandra parameter of $\pi_\infty$. However, the possibilities for the representations $\pi_\infty$ which can show up as Archimedean components of automorphic representations are pretty restricted, so $(0, 1, 3)$ isn't possible. (This is essentially the argument sketched in David Hansen's comment from 2010 that you linked to.)
Motivic argument: Fontaine and Mazur also made a (separate) conjecture that any such $\rho$ is the $p$adic realisation of a pure motive over $\mathbf{Q}$. By the comparison isomorphism of Faltings–Tsuji relating étale and de Rham cohomology, this implies that the Hodge–Tate weights of $\rho$ give the graded pieces of a pure Hodge structure. Since a pure Hodge structure has a weight $w$ and an action of complex conjugation which switches the $(p, wp)$ and $(wp, p)$ parts, this means the set of weights must be symmetric around $w/2$.

$\begingroup$ thank you for your incredible answer! would you happen to have a precise reference (book or article, page number) for the automorphic FontaineMazur conjecture? I have trouble locating it in the literature. $\endgroup$ – vrz Feb 2 at 1:29

1$\begingroup$ Fontaine and Mazur only stated the automorphic conjecture for $n = 2$. For the general version, see Conjecture 1.2.1 (4) of Patrikis' monograph "Variations on a theorem of Tate" (AMS Memoirs, 2019)  you can find a pdf of it on Patrikis' website math.utah.edu/~patrikis/variationsrevision.pdf. $\endgroup$ – David Loeffler Feb 2 at 10:29

$\begingroup$ then do you know historically why is it attributed to these two guys? Did they state in a talk? $\endgroup$ – vrz Feb 3 at 16:29

$\begingroup$ Could you elaborate on your motivic argument? I don't quite see how to deduce the symmetry of weights because we might be given an object of the category of motives over $\mathbb{Q}$ with coefficients in a field $F$ that has no real embeddings, so we are not getting a real Hodge structure out of it. For instance, if $K$ is a quadratic imaginary field of class number $1$ and $E$ is an elliptic curve over $K$ with CM by $K$ then the motive $h^1(Res_{K/\mathbb{Q}}E)$ splits into 4 motives of weights $0,0,1,1$ in the category of motives with coefficients in $K$. $\endgroup$ – SashaP Feb 3 at 20:41

$\begingroup$ I don't think I agree with your analysis of this CM elliptic curve example. It splits into 2 motives with $K$coeffs, each of which has weight 1 and Hodge types \{ (0, 1), (1, 0) \}$. Both summands split further when you restrict them to motives over $K$ with Kcoefficients but that's a different thing. $\endgroup$ – David Loeffler Feb 3 at 22:13