$A,U \in \mathbb{R}^{n\times n}$
$\exists A \in \text{{tri-diagonal}} \quad s.t \quad UAU^{t}=A \quad \forall U \in \text{{orthogonal}}$
I know it holds when A is a diagonal matrix, but have no idea when A is a tri-diagonal matrix..
$A,U \in \mathbb{R}^{n\times n}$
$\exists A \in \text{{tri-diagonal}} \quad s.t \quad UAU^{t}=A \quad \forall U \in \text{{orthogonal}}$
I know it holds when A is a diagonal matrix, but have no idea when A is a tri-diagonal matrix..
In general, this doesn't hold for diagonal matrices $A$ in general.
Consider $$A=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 0 &0 \\0 & 2 &0 \\ 0& 0& 3 \end{bmatrix}$$ and $$U = \begin{bmatrix} 0 &0 & 1 \\1 & 0 &0 \\ 0& 1&0 \end{bmatrix}$$ Then $$UAU^\mathrm{t}=\begin{bmatrix} 3 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 1 &0 \\ 0 & 0 & 2 \\ \end{bmatrix} \neq A$$
Given any diagonal $A$ with 3 distinct eigenvalues, the permutation matrix $U$ (a matrix in the natural image of $S_3$) will act non-trivially by conjugation.
To better understand the case of a trivial action by conjugation. Consider the following.
If $UAU^\mathrm{t}=A$, then $UA=AU$; so $A$ commutes with all orthogonal matrices and must be a multiple of the identity matrix. To see this more clearly, suppose $v$ is an eigenvector of $A$ with eigenvalue $\lambda$. Then for all $u\in\mathbb{R}^3$ there is an orthogonal matrix $U$ such that $Uv=u$ (and thus $U^\mathrm{t}u=v$), and $$Au=UAU^\mathrm{t}u=UAv=\lambda Uv=\lambda u,$$ so every vector is an eigenvector of $A$ with eigenvalue $\lambda$. Thus $A=\lambda I$.