Is there an intractability theorem that says that in any sufficiently rich system for defining really big numbers, there will be two numbers for which it's very, very, ... very difficult to decide which one is bigger?
Here I'm thinking of the kind of system that's embodied in the whimsical pictures in Rich Schwartz's book "Really Big Numbers". Such a system should allow for recursively defining new functions in terms of old, so that one can build up multiplication, exponentiation, tetration, ..., (and things beyond that size-$\omega$ hierarchy) from addition. There are many different systems of this kind, but I am imagining some sort of diagonalization argument that would apply to all of them.
I expect that the phrase "very difficult to decide" can be made concrete in a number of different way; I ask that the phrase be interpreted with some latitude, as I am interested in learning about all known results of this kind.