The simplest case occurs when the forms are diagonal:
$$P_i=a_{i1}x_1{d}+\cdots + a_{in}x_n^{d}$$ $1\leq i \leq m$.
and this has been investigated in detail. It's also the example with $m=1$ that Weil used in his paper proposing the Weil Conjectures. He used exponential sums in his analysis.
In general exponential sums are often the approach that gives reasonable bounds for specific cases.
As Will Sawin points out the only case where solutions are guaranteed is when $n>dm$. Chevalley-Warning gives you the simplest proof of this though Ax-Katz gives you more precise information on the number of solutions.
The other extreme is finding the least number of variables that still gives you a solution for $q$ large enough. In the diagonal case this requires $n>2m$. The problem then becomes finding good bounds for $q$. One can also relax the bound for n and look for better bounds for $q$.
For example it's a classical result that the equation $ax^d+by^d+cz^d=0$ has non-trivial solutions over $\mathbb F_q$ if $q>k^4$. Similarly for $n>2m$ Atkinson, Brudern and Cook $^1$
proved that we have a non-singular solution for $p>d^{2m+2}$. (Non-singularity is required for applications to the Hardy-Littlewood method and is a stronger condition than non-trivial of course)
I proved in a later paper $^2$ that for $n>cm$ you can find a non-singular solution if $q>m^2d^{2+\frac{2}{c-1}}$
These results are established using exponential sum estimates which gives you an estimate for the number of solutions $N$ of the form $$|N-q^{n-r}|<o(q^{n-r})$$ which immediately gives you a bound $$N>q^{n-r}-o(q^{n-r})>0$$ for large enough $q$.
For more general forms there has been a lot of work over the years beginning with the Lang-Weil inequality. See more recent papers, here and here. The book by Schmidt, Equations over Finite Fields $^3$ covers quite a bit from a more elementary approach avoiding the really difficult algebraic geometry related to the Weil Conjectures.
1 Atkinson, O. D.; Brüdern, J.; Cook, R. J., Simultaneous additive congruences to a large prime modulus, Mathematika 39, No. 1, 1-9 (1992). ZBL0774.11016.
2 Meir, I. D., Simultaneous diagonal (p)-adic equations, Mathematika 45, No. 2, 337-349 (1998). ZBL0992.11030.
3 Schmidt, Wolfgang M., Equations over finite fields. An elementary approach, Lecture Notes in Mathematics. 536. Berlin-Heidelberg-New York: Springer-Verlag. IX, 267 p. (1976). ZBL0329.12001.