Can someone give me an example of a closed smooth oriented manifold $M$ and an orientation preserving diffeomorphism $f:M\rightarrow M$ such that $f^k$ is isotopic to the identity for some $k\geq 1$, but $f$ is not isotopic to any finite order diffeomorphism? Similarly for homeomorphisms, and also for homotopies.
Of course, Kerckhoff's famous theorem says that this is impossible in dimension $2$.