Edit: I have reverted my question to its original version (which Bjorn Pooenen answered correctly) as requested in the comments.
Consider the local rings
$$R = \mathbb{C}[[x,y,z]]/\langle xy+xz+yz\rangle$$
and
$$S = \mathbb{C}[[x,y,z]]/\langle xy+xz+yz+xyz\rangle.$$
Is $R$ isomorphic to $S$?
Some context: I am trying to understand formal neighborhoods of points on certain varieties. I expect one answer, and I'm getting a different answer. This is the first nontrivial case where the answer that I get does not obviously agree with the answer that I expect.