That 2. implies 1. is a consequence of Adams' mod k Dold Theorem (Theorem 1.1 of On the groups J(X)-I. Topology 2 (1963) pp. 181-195).
The following is an argument for 1. implies 2. (using ideas similar to those in Adams' proof of the above as well as Sullivan's theory of p-local spherical fibrations contained in his MIT Geometric Topology notes (Chapter 4)).
If $E \to X$ is a spherical fibration ($p$-local or not) over $X$, I will write $\Sigma E$
for its fiberwise suspension. It is sufficient to produce a map $\Sigma^m S(\xi) \to \Sigma^m S(\eta)$ with fiberwise degree prime to $p$ for some large $m$, as obstruction theory and the stability assumption on $\xi$ and $\eta$ allow us to compress such a map down to a map $S(\xi) \to S(\eta)$.
[Edit:] In more detail, let $n$ be the dimension of the fibers of $S(\xi)$ and $S(\eta)$. The stability assumption is that $\dim X<n$. A fiberwise map from $S(\xi)$ to $S(\eta)$
is a section of a bundle over $X$ with fiber $Map(S^n,S^n)$. Since the inclusion
$Map(S^n,S^n) \hookrightarrow Map(S^{n+m},S^{n+m})$ determined by suspension is $(n-1)$-connected there is no obstruction to desuspending a fiberwise map $\Sigma^m S(\xi) \to
\Sigma^m S(\eta)$ to a map $S(\xi) \to S(\eta)$.
Condition 1. implies that the fiberwise localizations $S(\xi)_{(p)}$ and $S(\eta)_{(p)}$
are equivalent.
[Edit:] In more detail, let $BG$ denote the classifying space of stable spherical fibrations, let $BG_{p-loc}$ denote the classifying space for $p$-local spherical fibrations and let $BSG$ and $BSG_{p-loc}$ be their universal covers. Since $X$ is simply
connected we have $[X,BSG]=[X,BG]$. $J(X)$ is the image of $[X,BSO]=[X,BO]$ in $[X,BSG]$
under the canonical map. Since the map $BSG \to BSG_{p-loc} = BSG_{(p)}$ is localization
at $p$ (see Sullivan's notes Theorem 4.2 (iii) p. 93), Condition 1. implies that the
maps $X \to BSG$ classifying $S(\xi)$ and $S(\eta)$ become homotopic when composed with
the localization map $BSG \to BSG_{(p)}$.
Thus there exists a fiberwise map $f \colon S(\xi)_{(p)} \to S(\eta)_{(p)}$
with fiberwise degree $k/l \in \mathbb{Z}_{(p)}^\times$ (with $k,l$ integers prime to $p$). Using the suspension coordinate we can define a map $lf \colon \Sigma S(\xi)_{(p)} \to \Sigma S(\eta)_{(p)}$ with fiberwise degree $k \in \mathbb{Z}$. Precomposing with the localization map we have a map $\Sigma S(\xi) \to \Sigma S(\eta)_{(p)}$ of fiberwise degree prime to $p$ and all that remains is to compress this map down along the inclusion
$\Sigma S(\eta) \hookrightarrow \Sigma S(\eta)_{(p)}$.
[Edit:] Clearly this is possible over the $0$-skeleton of $X$. This compression will be
extended inductively over the cells of $X$ at the expense of suspending and "multiplying"
the maps fiberwise by integers prime to $p$.
In the inductive step we need to extend a compression over a $k$-cell of $X$ with $k>1$.
As the space of fiberwise maps $\Sigma^m S(\xi) \to \Sigma^m S(\eta)_{(p)}$ is the space of sections of a fibration with fiber $Map(S^{n+m},S^{n+m}_{(p)})$ the problem reduces
to finding a long diagonal lift in the commutative diagram
$$
\begin{array}{ccc}
S^{k-1} & \longrightarrow & Map(S^{n+m},S^{n+m}) & \stackrel{j}{\longrightarrow} &
Map(\Sigma S^{n+m}, \Sigma S^{n+m}) \\
\downarrow & & \downarrow & & \downarrow\\
D^k & \longrightarrow & Map(S^{n+m},S^{n+m}_{(p)}) & \stackrel{j}{\longrightarrow} & Map(\Sigma S^{n+m},\Sigma S^{n+m}_{(p)})
\end{array}
$$
where the horizontal maps $j$ denote fiber multiplication by a natural number $j$ (using the suspension coordinate).
The middle vertical map is $p$-localization on higher homotopy groups, and $j$ induces
multiplication by $j$ on $\pi_{k-1}$ so we are done.
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