The definition of uniform normality given is not a property of the underlying topology of your uniform space, but the definition of uniform normality is a property of the underlying proximity on your uniform space. Furthermore, the definition of uniform normality is correct since the uniformly normal spaces are precisely the uniform spaces where Urysohn's lemma holds for uniformly continuous functions.
The reader is referred primarily to [2] for more information on proximity spaces. One should consult [1] for more basic information on proximity spaces.
If $(X,\mathcal{U})$ is a uniform space, then $(X,\mathcal{U})$ becomes a proximity space where $R\delta S$ if and only if $D[R]\cap D[S]\neq\emptyset$ for each $D\in\mathcal{U}$. Said differently, $R\overline{\delta}S$ if and only if $D[R]\cap D[S]=\emptyset$ for some $D\in\mathcal{U}$. The definition of $\preceq$ is the same as defined before. In particular, $R\preceq S$ if and only if $D[R]\subseteq S$.
$\textbf{Proposition}$ Let $(X,\mathcal{U})$ be a uniform space. Then
the following are equivalent.
$(X,\mathcal{U})$ is uniformly normal (as defined in the question)
Whenever $C$ is a closed set, $U$ is an open set and $C\subseteq U$, then $C\preceq U$.
If $C_{1},C_{2}$ are two disjoint closed sets, then $C_{1}\overline{\delta}C_{2}$.
$R\overline{\delta}S$ if and only if $\overline{R}\cap\overline{S}=\emptyset$.
$R\preceq S$ if and only if $\overline{R}\preceq S^{\circ}$.
Furthermore, if $(X,\mathcal{U})$ satisfies any of the above
conditions, then $X$ is normal as a topological space.
Recall that any compact space has a unique uniformity and a unique proximity. Therefore when talking about uniformities and proximities on compact spaces, there is no need to mention the uniformity on proximity in question. The following proposition can be found in [2][Cor. 12.12].
$\textbf{Proposition}$ If $(X,\mathcal{U})$ is a uniform space and $C$
is a compact Hausdorff space, then a function
$f:(X,\mathcal{U})\rightarrow C$ is a proximity map if and only if it
is uniformly continuous.
Using the above characterization of the bounded real-valued uniformly continuous functions, we obtain a few more characterizations of uniform normality by replacing "uniformly continuous" by proximity map.
$\textbf{Proposition}$ Let $(X,\mathcal{U})$ be a uniform space. Then
the following are equivalent.
$(X,\mathcal{U})$ is uniformly normal.
If $C_{1},C_{2}\subseteq X$ are disjoint closed sets, then there is a uniformly continuous map $f:X\rightarrow[0,1]$ with $f|_{C_{1}}=0$
and $f|_{C_{2}}=1$.
$X$ is normal and every continuous map $f:X\rightarrow[0,1]$ is uniformly continuous.
$X$ is normal, and for every compact Hausdorff space $C$, every continuous map $f:X\rightarrow C$ is uniformly continuous.
With all these facts mentioned, it must be said that except for rare occasions, normal spaces typically can be given compatible uniformities which are not uniformly normal. The only spaces that I can think of that are normal and all of whose uniformities are uniformly normal are similar to ordinal spaces.
$\textbf{Proposition}$ Let $X$ be a normal space. Then the following are
equivalent.
Every compatible uniformity on $X$ is uniformly normal.
The space $X$ has a unique compatible proximity.
The space $X$ has a unique compactification.
$X$ is compact or $X$ is locally compact and the one-point-compactification of $X$ coincides with the Stone-Cech compactification of $X$.
$X$ is locally compact and $A\cap B\neq\emptyset$ whenever $A,B$ are non-compact closed subsets of $X$.
- $X$ has a unique compatible uniformity.
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Naimpally, S. A., and B. D. Warrack. Proximity Spaces. Cambridge Eng.: University, 1970.