That is indeed a beautiful question!
In principle, there are two ways to ensure Wasserstein contaction when the original Markov chain does not:
Deform the distance
Take powers/exponential of the original Markov chain
For 1), assume that $d$ is the hop count distance. Then, you can set $d' = \phi \circ d$ for a suitable increasing function $\phi: \mathbb R_+ \to \mathbb R_+$. Suitable here means that $\phi(n)$ is sufficiently concave for $n<M$ to ensure positive curvature for small distances. For $n>M$, you can set $\phi$ to be (affine) linear, and this will give you positive curvature for large distances. This should always give something as long as you have a lower bound for the positive jump rates, but the decay rates seem to be very bad in the general case.
For 2), there is a paper establishing cutoff for the random walk on the permutation group by Berestycki and Sengul
N Berestycki, B Sengul
They show positive curvature for powers of the Markov kernel although the original Markov kernel is negatively curved.
Also, a general, but rather easy thing to note is that if $d(\operatorname{supp} \nu,\operatorname{supp} \mu) \geq M + R$, then for all $r<R$,
$$
W(\mu P^r, \nu P^r) \leq (1-\kappa)^r W(\mu,\nu),
$$
again assuming hop count distance.
It might be promising to combine 1) and 2) but as Anthony pointed out, you need some additional assumptions:
You consider $P' = P^R$ for some $R>M$, and $d'$ the hop count distance of $P'$. The goal is to establish positive curvature for $P'$ with respect to $d'$. Let
$$
\rho_0 := 1 -\sup_{d(x,y) \leq R} d_{TV}(\delta_x P^R, \delta_y P^R)
$$
You need a good lower bound on $\rho_0$ this which is not there in the general case by the example of Anthony, but might work in your application.
On the other hand, you fix $x,y$ with $d(x,y) \leq R$, and consider the coupled random walks $X_R$ and $Y_R$ after $R$ steps, and the curvature assumption should yield an upper bound on
$$
\rho_2 := P(d(X_R,Y_R) >R)
$$
Indeed having lazyness, you can couple $X_R,Y_R$ such that $d(X_R,Y_R) \leq 2R$ meaning that $d'$ can only increase by at most one after one step of $P'$ meaning $R$ steps of $P$. Some upper bound on $\rho_2$ should follow by estimating the random variable $d(X_R,Y_R)$ by the random walk on a biased birth death chain (with bias towards the origin with rate $\kappa$ on all states $\geq M$, and reflecting at state $M-1$).
Then, the curvature of $P'$ with respect to $d'$ should be at least
$\rho_0 - \rho_2$ which is hopefully positive.