I am trying to study Kock and Vainsencher's book "An invitation to Quantum Cohomology", working my way through the exercises. One of them ($0$th chapter) asks two prove that two elliptic curves $Y^2 Z=X(X-Z)(X-\lambda Z)$ are projectively equivalent if and only if they share the same set $\Lambda(\lambda)$, where such set is defined as $$ \Lambda(\lambda)=\left\lbrace \lambda,1-\lambda,\frac 1\lambda,\frac\lambda{\lambda-1},\frac 1{1-\lambda},\frac{\lambda-1}\lambda\right\rbrace $$ (that is, the orbit of the cross-ratio of 4 points under permutations of the 4 points).
What puzzles me is that they also suggest a Hint: first show that if $P,Q$ are flexes of a smooth plane cubic $C$, then there exists $\phi\in\mathrm{Aut}(\mathbb P^2)$ such that $\phi(C)=C$, $\phi(P)=Q$.
I am a bit rusty in Algebraic Geometry, but think I managed to prove the Hint. However, I cannot see how to apply the hint to solve the exercise. Any ideas on how to solve the exercise using the suggested hint would be greatly appreciated!