Given a projective variety $X$ (over $\mathbb{C}$, say) with an affine paving $X=\sqcup_i C_i$, one can construct a poset $P_X$ on the set of cells $\{C_i\}$ by saying $C_i \leq C_j$ whenever $C_i \subseteq \overline{C_j}$. For example, doing this for Schubert cells in the flag variety gives the Bruhat order.
The dual $P^*$ of a poset $P$ is obtained by "flipping $P$ upside down": $x \leq_{P^*} y$ if and only if $y \leq_P x$.
Is there a natural construction of a "polar dual" variety $X^*$, along with an affine paving, such that $P_{X^*}\cong P_X^*$? Ideally $X^{**}$ should be "the same" stratified variety as $X$. I am willing to assume any niceness conditions on the decomposition $X=\sqcup_i C_i$ that you like.
The reason I use the name "polar dual" is that if one views a convex polytope $Q$ as the union of its open faces, and defines the poset $P_Q$ using the closure relation as above, then $P_{Q^{\circ}}=P_Q^*$, where $Q^{\circ}$ is the polar dual polytope.