The mysterious object "field with one element" seems to appear first in J. Tits papers on buildings. It is mentioned in almost any text on $\mathbb{F}_1$. However, I have never seen any exposition of his ideas understandable by pedestrians, beyond something very short remarks (see example below).
Question: Can one give some comment on buildings, their relations to projective geometries and how that might lead to idea of a field with one element? And what intuition should we get from that for $\mathbb{F}_1$?
For example Connes, Consani "On the notion of geometry over $F_1$" wrote the following. I am not an expert and that does not give me a clear picture.
In his theory of buildings J. Tits obtained a broad generalization of the celebrated von Staudt reconstruction theorem in projective geometry, involving as groups of symmetries not only GLn but the full collection of Chevalley algebraic groups. Among the axioms ([28]) which characterize these constructions, a relevant one is played by the condition of “thickness” which states, in its simplest form, that a projective line contains at least three points. By replacing this requirement with its strong negation, i.e. by imposing that a line contains exactly two points, one still obtains a coherent “geometry” which is a degenerate form of classical projective geometry. In the case of buildings, this degenerate case is described by the theory of “thin” complexes and in particular by the structure of the apartments, which are the basic constituents of the theory of buildings. The degeneracy of the von Staudt field inspired to Tits the conviction that these degenerate forms of geometries are a manifestation of the existence of a hypothetical algebraic object that he named “the field of characteristic one” ([26]). The richness and beauty of this geometric picture gives convincing evidence for the pertinence of a separate study of the degenerate case.