Consider the action of $GL(n,k)$ on the set $M\times M$ where $M$ is the set of all $n$-by-$n$ matrices over $k$ given by $g\cdot(h,l) \mapsto (ghg^{-1}, glg^t)$.
Individually these actions are well-studied and good descriptions are known.
I would like to know if a decent description of this simultaneous action is known.
Here I elaborate what I mean: if we look at only conjugacy action, i.e., the first component only, one can describe representatives of each orbit using rational canonical form theory. There are similar results for the second component action, e.g., for a symmetric matrix the orbit representative could be taken as a diagonal (Gram-Schmidt like results) matrix.
I need "good" orbit representatives for the simultaneous action. For me a matrix is good if it is sparse; having a lot of zeros.
Thanks a lot!