In the smooth category, one has the following extension theorem.
Theorem. Let $i:S\hookrightarrow M$ and $j:S\hookrightarrow N$ be two closed embeddings of a smooth manifold $S$ into smooth manifolds $M$ and $N$. Suppose that there is a vector bundle isomorphism $F:TM|_S\to TN|_S$ which restricts to the identity on $TS$. Then, there are neighborhoods of $i(S)$ and $j(S)$ and a diffeomorphism $f$ between them such that $df_p=F_p$ for all $p\in S$.
However, the only proof that I know relies on choosing Riemannian metrics on $M$ and $N$ and constructing tubular neighborhoods using the exponential maps. See, e.g. [Guillemin-Sternberg, Semi-classical analysis, Proposition 9, Ch 2].
Is there an analogue of this theorem in the holomorphic category?