Here is my, admittedly, ad hoc way of proving they are distinct. It comes from trying to make it concrete that the graded pieces have different sizes.
First, you better assume that $n\geq 2$ as these rings are isomorphic if $n=1$.
Assume, by way of contradiction, there is an isomorphism $\varphi:S\rightarrow R$ where $S$ is the second ring (with the determinant relation) and $R$ is the first ring. Let $f_{ij}=\varphi(y_{ij})$. Thus $\det((f_{ij}))=1$.
Let $I_{0}$ be the ideal of $R$ generated by $2$ and $x_{k}^{2}$ for each $k$. Note that as the $y_{ij}$ generate $S$, we must have that $x_{1}$ occurs in one of the $f_{ij}$ (even modulo $I_{0}$) with non-zero support. Let $I_{1}$ be the ideal generated by the same relations as $I_{0}$, except we add the relation $x_{1}=f_{ij}-x_{1}$. Note that $R/I_{1}$ is isomorphic (naturally) to $\mathbb{Z}[x_2,x_3,\ldots, x_{n^{2}-1}]$.
Now, $x_{2}$ occurs with non-zero support in (a different) $f_{ij}'$ (modulo $I_{1}$) as these polynomials still generate $R/I_{1}$. Create a new ideal $I_{2}$ containing $f_{ij}'$, but for which $R/I_{2}$ looks like $\mathbb{Z}[x_3,\ldots, x_{n^{2}-1}]$.
Repeating this process enough times, we can make make the matrix $(f_{ij})$ have both determinant 1 and 0, modulo an ideal $I$, even though $R/I$ is not the zero ring. This gives you the needed contradiction.