Let $M$, $N$ be two modules over a ring $R$, suppose $M$ (resp. $N$) is a non-split extension of $M_2$ by $M_1$ (resp. of $N_2$ by $N_1$) as $R$-modules. We make the following assumption:
(1) $\mathrm{Ext}^1_R(N_1,M_1)=0$ and $\mathrm{Ext}^1_R(N_1, M) \cong \mathrm{Ext}^1_R(N_1,M_2)$;
(2) $\mathrm{Ext}^2_R(N_2,M_2)=0$ and $\mathrm{Ext}^2_R(N_2,M)\cong \mathrm{Ext}^2_R(N_2,M_1)$.
Consider the adjunction map $\mathrm{Ext}^1_R(N_1,M) \rightarrow \mathrm{Ext}^2_R(N_2,M)$ (induced by $N_1\rightarrow N\rightarrow N_2$), and I'm wondering if this map is always zero, since, by our assumption, any non-zero element in $\mathrm{Ext}^1_R(N_1,M)$ is from $\mathrm{Ext}^1_R(N_1,M_2)$ while any non-zero element in $\mathrm{Ext}^2_R(N_2,M)$ is from $\mathrm{Ext}^2_R(N_2,M_1)$?
Many thanks!