Leaving aside the issues around consistency (which I don't really follow - see Andreas' comments), it seems to me that the mathematical question you're asking is:
If $M\models ZF-Inf$, can there be a class forcing extension $M[G]$ of $M$ which satisfies full $ZF$?
(Note that $ZF$ and $ZF-Inf+Inf$ are the same thing.)
Let's first think about this in the context of the usual model $V_\omega$ of hereditarily finite sets. We can set up the machinery of class forcing as usual: however, note that every name is finite! (Since names are just sets of a certain form in the ground model, and every element of $V_\omega$ is finite.) This means in particular that, no matter what $\mathbb{P}$ and $G$ we pick, in $V_\omega[G]$ every set will be finite. So in particular, $V_\omega[G]$ will not satisfy Inf.
I believe that this generalizes to all models of $ZF-Inf+\neg Inf$+"transitive closures exist" (this is classically proved via Replacement + Infinity), via a similar argument: given a putative name for $\omega$ in the extension, we may recover $\omega$ from its transitive closure in the ground model, contradicting $\neg Inf$ there. I am uncertain as to whether TCE can be dropped here; I don't have much experience with finite set theories. However, I suspect that it can be.
Note that set forcing in finite set theories is trivial: $ZF-Inf+\neg Inf$ proves "in every (set) partial order, the set of minimal elements is dense."
Going back to consistency issues, it sounds like you are trying to prove $Con(ZF-Inf)\implies Con(ZF)$ in a reasonably weak base theory (say, a subtheory of ZF). This cannot succeed unless $ZF$ is inconsistent: since $ZF$ does prove $Con(ZF-Inf)$, this would imply $ZF\vdash Con(ZF)$.
If that's not what you're trying to do, what are you trying to do?
Incidentally, if you're trying to prove $Con(ZF-Inf)\implies Con(ZF)$ in a possibly stronger base theory, note that this is easily doable: ZF+"there is an inaccessible cardinal" proves $Con(ZF)$, so proves $Con(ZF-Inf)\implies Con(ZF)$. And by the reasoning above, this is the only way to have this occur: if $T$ is a theory containing $ZF$, then $T\vdash Con(ZF-Inf)\implies Con(ZF)$ iff $T\vdash Con(ZF)$.