This is very similar to Vladimir Dotsenko's approach.
The natural approach (at least, the one both he and I took) is to make a sequence of changes of variable, of the form
$$\begin{array}{rcl}
w_{n} &=& w_{n+1}+a_{n+1}(w_{n+1},x_{n+1},y_{n+1},z_{n+1}) \\
x_{n} &=& x_{n+1}+b_{n+1}(w_{n+1},x_{n+1},y_{n+1},z_{n+1}) \\
y_{n} &=& y_{n+1}+c_{n+1}(w_{n+1},x_{n+1},y_{n+1},z_{n+1}) \\
z_{n} &=& z_{n+1}+d_{n+1}(w_{n+1},x_{n+1},y_{n+1},z_{n+1}) \\
\end{array}$$
where $(a_n, b_n, c_n, d_n)$ have degree $n$ so that the polynomial $w_1 x_1 y_1 + w_1 x_1 z_1 + w_1 y_1 z_1 + x_1 y_1 z_1 + w_1 x_1 y_1 z_1$ becomes $w_n x_n y_n + w_n x_n z_n + w_n y_n z_n + x_n y_n z_n + \Delta$ for $\Delta$ of higher and higher degree.
Thus, the key computation is the following:
If we have $wxy+wxz+wyz+xyz+\Delta$, with $\Delta$ in degrees $\geq n$, when can we make a change of variables which eliminates the degree $n$ part of $\Delta$? The answer is the following: if and only if $\Delta$ has no $w^n$, $x^n$, $y^n$ or $z^n$ term.
Proof: Let $\Delta_n$ be the degree $n$ part of $\Delta$. We can eliminate it if and only if $\Delta_n$ is of the form
$$(wx+wy+xy) d + (wx+wz+xz) c + (wy+wz+yz) b+ (wx+wy+xy) a$$
for $a$, $b$, $c$, $d$ of degree $n-2$. In other words, if and only if $\Delta_n$ is in the ideal
$$I:= \langle wx+wy+xy, wx+wz+xz, wy+wz+yz, wx+wy+xy \rangle.$$
It is obvious that $I$ is contained in
$$J: = \langle wx, wy, wz, xy, xz, wz \rangle.$$
I verified by explicit linear algebra that the degree $3$ piece of $I$ has dimension $31$, as does the degree $3$ piece of $J$. So $I$ and $J$ are equal in degree $3$, and hence in all higher degrees. The degree $n$ part of $J$ is precisely the polynomials with no $w^n$, $x^n$, $y^n$ or $z^n$ term.
Thus, to win, we must show that we can keep clearing away the lowest remaining terms without creating $w^n$, $x^n$, $y^n$ or $z^n$ in higher degrees. It isn't clear to me whether or not this is possible.
Further thoughts: the germ $wxy+wxz+wyz+xyz$ is singular along $x=y=z=0$ and the permutations thereof, and likewise for $WXY+WXZ+WYZ+XYX+WXYZ$. It seems to me that this should imply that the change of variables should take $x=y=z=0$ to $X=Y=Z=0$, and the same for the other four combinations of coordinates. This should mean that $W-w$ is in the ideal generated by $\langle w, xy, xz, yz \rangle$. Imposing these restrictions on $a$, $b$, $c$, $d$ gives a new ideal $I'$, which is only $19$ dimensional in degree $4$ (so much less than $J$.) But $wxyz$ is in $I'$, so we can still make the first change of variable.