I recently try to read Vatsal's paper ``Multiplicative subgroups of $J_0(N)$ and applications to elliptic curves.'' He seemed to use the following fact freely:
Let $E$ be a semistable elliptic curve defined over $\mathbb{Q}$, and suppose that $E$ admits a cyclic $\ell$-isogeny $\phi : E \to E'$. Then $\phi$ is étale if and only if the kernel of $\phi$ is isomorphic to $\mathbb{Z}/\ell\mathbb{Z}$ as an $\mathrm{Gal}(\overline{\mathbb{Q}}/\mathbb{Q})$-module.
Because of the lack of my knowledge about étale isogenies, I cannot figure out the proof of the above fact. In fact, I'm not sure that the statement is even true. If anyone let me know the proof of the above statement, it's very helpful for me to understand Vatsal's paper.
Moreover, I failed to find reasonable references about étale isogenies. Any suggestions about good references will be appreciated.
$N(E)_{\mathbf{Z}_2} = N(E_{\mathbf{Q}_2})$
is $\mu_2$, so the isogeny $E \rightarrow E' := E/\langle P \rangle$ is a counterexample (since Grothendieck's inertial criterion ensures that $E'$ is semistable at all primes). $\endgroup$