Suppose $A$ is a finite abelian group and $B\leq\operatorname{Aut}(A)$ is abelian. Is it possible for the order of $B$ to be strictly greater than the order of $A$? What if I additionally impose that the orders of $A,B$ are coprime?
As a special case, suppose $p$ is prime. Can $\operatorname{GL}_n(\mathbf F_p)$ have an abelian subgroup of order greater than $p^n$ (not divisible by $p$)? In other words, can an abelian group $B$ of order greater than $p^n$ have an $n$-dimensional faithful representation over a field with $p$ elements?
Edit: I just realised that the reasoning below is a bit silly, as $\lvert B\rvert<p^{n^2}$ is trivial, since $\lvert \operatorname{GL}_n(\mathbf F_p)\rvert<p^{n^2}$...
Below, I make some observations about this last case. Suppose $B$ is an abelian group admitting such a representation and $p$ does not divide the order of $B$.
Given such a representation, we can extend it to a representation over the algebraic closure of the $p$-element field and then decompose it into $n$ one-dimensional irreps. The image of a one-dimensional representation will be isomorphic to a finite subgroup of the multiplicative group of the field, and hence finite, generated by a root of unity.
This root of unity will be an eigenvalue of a matrix in the image of the original representation, and hence it is a root of a polynomial of degree $n$ with coefficients in $\mathbf F_p$. From this it follows that it is a primitive $d$-th root of unity for $d$ satisfying $p^m\equiv 1\pmod d$ for some $m\leq n$. This implies that $d<p^n$, which gives a weak bound of $\lvert B\rvert< p^{n^2}$, but I suspect it's not hard to get something much stronger.