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Ori, all I can say in a few words re: motivation is that this graph parameter bounds another one that I'm actually interested in. I thought about it a bit more, and decided that you're right, $\alpha=1$ is the right answer. Rather than finding disjoint pairs of vertices, we can use all the pairs since most pairs are independent -- extended Janson inequality makes it work...