Maybe this "answer" is too far away from schemes to be what is desired.  But here it goes anyway.

I believe in general that for complex affine varieties $X,Y$, that a morphism $f:X\to Y$ is étale iff it is a local analytic isomorphism in the analytic topology.  When $X,Y$ are smooth, it is enough to just check that the tangent spaces are isomorphic at every point.

For example, if a finite group $\Gamma$ acts on a connected and normal variety $X$ algebraically, then the mapping $X\to X//\Gamma$ is étale if and only if $\Gamma$ acts freely (i.e. stabilizers are trivial).

One can find projections like that who are not homeomorphic to their image; a necessary requirement for open immersions.  For example, consider the étale map $\mathrm{SL}_2(\mathbb{C})\to \mathrm{SL}_2(\mathbb{C})/\mathbb{Z}_2\cong \mathrm{SO}(3,\mathbb{C})$. 

Conversely however, open immersions are always étale.

EDIT:  I added some detail to the general statement about finite quotients, and replaced my original example since it was not correct.  In particular, the tangent map to $\mathbb{C}^* \to \mathbb{C}^*//\mathbb{Z}_2 \cong \mathbb{C}$ (where $\mathbb{Z}_2$ acts by $z\mapsto 1/z$) is not an isomorphism at $\pm 1$, and so it is not étale at those points (it is at all other points though).