Take a partition of ${\mathbb N}^2$ into  vertical lines $\{x\}\times {\mathbb N}$. In each vertical line take a non-principle ultrafilter $\omega_x$. Now take the set of all sets $Y$ that intersect all but finitely many vertical lines by a subset from $\omega_x$. Note that all complements of finite sets of ${\mathbb N}^2$ are in our set of sets, and that it is clearly a filter. Take any ultrafilter $\omega$ that contains that filter. It exists by the Zorn lemma. Clearly, the first option does not hold: none of the vertical lines is in $\omega$. Now suppose that for some $C\in\omega$, $C$ intersects each vertical line by at most 1 element. Then its complement intersects each vertical line by a subset that is either the whole line or the line without one element. That is impossible because we chose non-principle $\omega_x$. Thus $\omega$ is a counterexample.