Let us restate the problem for ease of reference.
The equations are

$\dot{x}(t)=y(t)$    
$\dot{y}(t)= - 4 x(t) + y(t)^2$

Physically they describe an anharmonic oscillator with spatial coordinate $x(t)$ and velocity $y(t)$ in the potential

$U = 2 x^2 - \frac{1}{3} x^3$

The problem is then: given two solutions $(x1(t), y1(t))$, $(x2(t), y2(t))$ corresponding to the initial conditions 

$s1 = (x1(t=0) = x10, y1(t=0) = y10)$
$s2 = (x2(t=0) = x20, y2(t=0) = y20)$

Assuming that $y10$ and $y20$ do not vanish and obey the condition

$y10 + y20 = 0$

show that the quantity

$d(t) = y1(t) + y2(t)$

becomes "!=0" for times $t>0$.

For small t we have up to first order in t

d(t) = y10 + t \dot y1 (0) + y20 + t \dot y2 (0)  = (y10 + y20) + t ( - 4 (x10+ x20) + (x10^2 + x20^2) )

Since we have y10 + y20 = 0, d(t) = 0 requires

0 =  - 4 (x10+ x20) + (x10^2 + x20^2) 

On the other hand, for d(t) = 0 to hold for arbitrary long times the period of motion for s1 and s2 must be the same.
This in turn requires the energy E to be the same, which means

0 = (6 x10^2- x10^3)-(6 x20^2- x20^3 )


The orbits obey the equation

$\frac{d y}{d x}=\frac{y^2-4 x}{y}$

Multiplying by $y$ this can be written as

$\frac{1}{2}\frac{d y^2}{\text{dx}}=y^2-4 x$

and is easily integrated to give

$y^2=c \exp (2 x)+4 x+2$

where $c$ is a constant of integration.

If the initial state is $( x(0) = x0$, $y(0) = y0 )$

then 

$c=\left(-4 x0+y0^2-2\right) \exp (- 2 \text{x0})$

and the orbit corresponding to this Initial state is

$y^2=\left(-4 \text{x0}+\text{y0}^2-2\right) \exp (2 (x-\text{x0}))+4 x+2$

Now the sign of the factor in front of the exponential

$s=\left(-4 \text{x0}+\text{y0}^2-2\right)$

defines distinguishes between finite ($s<0$) and unbounded ($s>0$) orbits. We therefore call the orbit $s=0$ the separatrix.

*Second integration, time dependence, frequency of oscillation*

Because of

$dx/dt = y[x] = Sqrt[2 + 4 x + c Exp[2 x]]$

variables can be separated an we get the time $t$ as a function of $x$:

$t=\int_{\text{x0}}^x \frac{1}{\sqrt{c \exp (2 z)+4 z+2}} \, dz+\text{t0}$