[Crossposted at math.stackexchange].
Originally I posted a slightly more complicated version of this question. I decided to edit and put it in this simplified form, because I think that if we can answer this question then we can answer the original one too.
Let $\mathcal{F}$ be a family of $n$ finite sets. In this case, the family can be regarded as a multiset, since it is allowed to contain multiple instances of the same set. Let $U(\mathcal{F})$ be the universe, i.e. the union of all sets in $\mathcal{F}$.
We require that:
- $\mathcal{F}$ is intersection-closed ($\mathcal{F}$ must contain at least one instance of $A \cap B$ for any $A,B \in \mathcal{F}$);
- every element in $U(\mathcal{F})$ belongs to at least $\lceil (n-1)/2 \rceil$ sets of $\mathcal{F}$ (every set is counted with its multiplicity).
Is it possible to prove that, for any possible choice of $\mathcal{F}$, there exist $A, B \in \mathcal{F}$ such that $A \cup B = U(\mathcal{F})$?
Maybe a sketch of a possible approach is starting from the power set $\mathcal{P}(U(\mathcal{F}))$, then try to remove an intersection irreducible set to obtain another intersection-closed family modifying set multiplicites as needed by requirement $2$, and show that we cannot do that without removing all intersection irreducible sets of the same size.