For the $p$-adic case, the idea is as follows (thanks to Elad for pointing out the direction). Recall (from the unpublished notes by Casselman, Introduction to the theory of admissible representations of p-adic reductive groups) that $k$ is a non-Archimedean locally compact field, $G$ is a group of $k$-rational points of a reductive algebraic group defined over $k$, and $P$ is a parabolic subgroup of $G$ with Levi decomposition $P=MN$.
We note that it is sufficient to show that the function $x\mapsto\left\langle \pi_{N}(x)u,\tilde{u}\right\rangle _{N}$ is an $A_M$-finite function ($A_M$ is the center of the Levi part $M$). Indeed, From Jacquet and Langlands (Lemma 8.1 in Automorphic Forms on GL$(2)$: Part I, volume 114. Springer, 2006), one can deduce that the space of continuous finite functions on the locally compact abelian group $A_M$ is spanned by functions of the form \begin{equation} \prod_{i=1}^{r}\chi_i(a_i)\left|a_i\right|^{p'_i}\log_q ^{p_i}\left|a_i\right|, \end{equation} where $r$ is such that $A_M\cong k^r$, $\left(p'_{1},\ldots,p'_{r}\right)\in \mathbb{R}^r,\ \left(p_{1},\ldots,p_{r}\right)\in \mathbb{Z}^r_{\ge 0}$, and for all $1\leq i\leq r$, $\chi_i:k^\times \to \mathbb{C}^\times$ are unitary characters.
Now, in order to prove that the function $x\mapsto\left\langle \pi_{N}(x)u,\tilde{u}\right\rangle _{N}$ is an $A_M$-finite function, we use the following technical lemma.
- Lemma. Let $R$ be a group with center $Z\left(R\right)\cong K\times\mathbb{Z}^{r}$, where $K$ is a compact group. Let $\left(H,\sigma\right)$ be a (complex) smooth $R$-module of finite length and let $v\in H$. Then, the $Z\left(R\right)$-module generated by $v$ is finite dimensional.
The Jacquet module is a smooth $G$-module of finite length (See Theorems 3.3.1 and 6.3.10 in the abovementioned unpublished notes by Casselman). Hence, we apply the lemma with $R=M$ (with $Z(R)=A_M$), $H=V_N$, $\sigma=\pi_N$, and $v=u\in V_{N}$. This gives that $U:=\left\{ \pi_{N}\left(a\right)u|\ a\in A_{M}\right\} $ is of finite dimension. Let $\left\{ \pi_{N}\left(b_{1}\right)u,\ldots, \pi_{N}\left(b_{\ell}\right)u\right\}$ be a basis of $U$. Then, \begin{equation} \pi_{N}\left(a\right)u=\sum_{i=1}^{\ell}c_{i}(a)\pi_{N}\left(b_i\right)u. \end{equation} Therefore, \begin{equation} \left\langle \pi_{N}\left(ma\right)u,\tilde{u}\right\rangle _{N}=\sum_{i=1}^{\ell}c_{i}\left(a\right)\left\langle \pi_{N}\left(m b_i\right)u,\tilde{u}\right\rangle _{N}. \end{equation} For more details, as well as the proof of the lemma, see here.
For the Archimedean case, one can find an asymptotic expansion of the matrix coefficients, as a finite sum of finite functions, in Casselman's paper Jacquet modules for real reductive groups (see the Lemma in Section 5, Proceedings of the International Congress of Mathematicians (Helsinki, 1978)).