I was acquainted with Nikolay Vasil'evich Kuznetsov while worked in Vladivostok, 1990s. And he was very kind to mee, too. He tought me that many asymptotics for Bessel functions are not valid, many from Erdelyi's book on asymptotics, and some formulas for integral transforms. And as you I do not remember all his lessons, unfortunately. But I think the answer to your question is in this paper: http://www.mathnet.ru/php/archive.phtml?wshow=paper&jrnid=sm&paperid=2598&option_lang=eng or this one: http://www.mathnet.ru/php/archive.phtml?wshow=paper&jrnid=znsl&paperid=2358&option_lang=eng
Fortunately they are digitized officially now by the Steklov Institute project on mathnet.