Edit: I found the introduction of this article of A. Furman (mainly quoting results of Furstenberg) useful for one approach to non-amenability, although it maybe isn't quite what you are looking for: http://homepages.math.uic.edu/~furman/preprints/fb.pdf In particular, you can define the universal boundary (boundary = compact Hausdorff $G$-space such that the action is minimal and strongly proximal) for any locally compact group $G$, and $G$ is amenable if and only if the universal boundary is trivial. It looks like this universal boundary $B(G)$ is what is meant by the Furstenberg boundary of a locally compact group. Given a random walk on $G$ that generates the group, one can then define its Poisson(-Furstenberg) boundary. Depending on the measure, this can be larger than $B(G)$. If I am reading Furstenberg's paper correctly, for a semisimple Lie group they can all be realized as covers of $B(G)$, so $B(G)$ is the smallest Poisson boundary; not sure how far this generalizes.