Let $M$ be an $R$-module. We say that $M$ is reflexive if the natural map $M\rightarrow M^{**}$ is an isomorphism.
I'd like to know if there exists a module isomorphic to its bi-dual but not reflexive, do you know an example?
Yes, there are such examples. In the case of Abelian groups for example, one can have a group A which is not reflexive, but which is isomorphic to its double dual. The book "Almost Free Modules" by Eklof and Mekler (North Holland) contains much of what is known.
As a specific example, take E to be a stationary and costationary subset of $\omega_1$, and let $X=\omega_1 + 1\backslash E$, given the subspace topology (of the space $\omega_1 +1$ with the interval topology). Then $C(X, Z)$ (continuous functions to the integers with the discrete topology) is such a group. In fact for this group $C(X,Z)^{**} = \sigma[C(X,Z)] \oplus Z$ where $\sigma$ is the natural map, so that $C(X,Z)$ is not reflexive, but $C(X,Z)\oplus Z \cong C(X,Z)$ because for example $C(X,Z)$ has $Z^\omega$ as a summand.
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(the James space) that is isometrically isomorphic to$J^{\ast\ast}$
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